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[abigail Profile]

one of my family meebers just went to the hopsital a few minutes ago. I wont know how things are going to go from here until tonight or tommorrow.

i dont have any news yet, so i dont know how things will go for me or my family. just a heads up incase i drop off the map for a while.

last year i was the one dealing with things and did not come back to minecraft until i recovered. but the nature of it meant i was unable to say beforehand that i would be gone "for a while".

just a heads up.

[VanDerProtofsky Profile]

please take care of yourself, and best wishes to you and your family. if you are ever in need of company, always remember that we are here (with an excess of cakes)

[PosterAnonymous Profile]

Our thoughts, prayers, hopes, desires, etc. are with you and your family. We'll see you when you're ready and able to come back!

[abigail Profile]

thank you very much for your words and concern

it is going to take another day (maybe longer) until the test results say how bad it is. so the wait is not over, their state is not getting any worse but we dont know how bad that is yet.

until then ill play when i can to try to get my mind off the things. see you 'round

[PyxisGirl Profile]

So sorry to hear this. Hopefully all will be well soon, take care and all our best to your family.

[scotjr79 Profile]

I am a RN that works in an emergency dept, if you need to bounce any questions off of me, I am more than happy to help with anything you need.

[abigail Profile]

if i have any questions i'll ask, thanks. as last night we were given an eta on the test results. some time today so im trying to figure out what wold be the best time to go.

once more into the breach

[uekitree Profile]

Our thoughts are with you and yours Abi. So sorry you have to go through this. If you ever need a friendly ear you know where to find us.

[DragonofHalo Profile]

We're so sorry, Abigail. Hope everything works out and we're pulling for you and your family back here.

[abigail Profile]

thank you for the concern

after the plethora of negative results we are closer to still not knowing for sure whats going on. the doctors will not for sure anything until they are sure. and based on the changes it is more likely one of the worse outcomes. it will take time to know more and one thing i secretly hate is waiting on medical tests

[abigail Profile]

Update: what has happened to my family member is sofar the best case scenario of what happened according to the tests. they are on the mend but it is unclear what the complete extent of the damage is. not in a coma would only be good news if that was the only thing wrong.

this means i'm in the longer wait now to see how god/bad this drags down on me. what this means: I am still around but only time will tell if i get pulled away later.
no it's not my husband. if the same thing was happening to him i would either be playing minecraft wayyyy to much or i would have already disappeared. i can tell its still hard to deal with

as it is now, that is far less likely now. And based on my conversation with them there i dont think there is long term damage even if treatment takes months. its just maddening knowing that timeline and that i need to take this day by day.